If we want to restore and strengthen human bonds, we’ll have to go a little further. We’ll have to address the root problem: By and large, men have been taught to believe they’re rugged individualists who don’t need anyone. They never saw all the work women were doing to support them, whether it was their mom, a sister, an aunt, or a wife. Now it’s gone, and they’re having a crisis moment. That’s not the only problem, but it’s a big part of it. Now instead of teaching men how to take care of themselves, a thousand grifters are moving in with their own promises and solutions. Each one just makes everything worse.