Look when the joke was said it was a shock. That is what comedians do; then they try and walk in context. I didn’t get or laugh, but I have laughed at a-lot of his work. I see your pain as I get upset when “lazy Mexican” jokes are said or implied in comedy, by people from your tribe.
Would the world be better if we all got cancelled, maybe. Should we evolve to better place where respect is mutual? Sure so who goes first because POC ? The first tribe?
I have been in many setting where people from your tribe and mine (latin) use racial and derogation as “jokes” and it is intentional.
The way to heal this is as follows: not my words
Fix what is deeply wrong and in Your own self and society will then be a paradise. All hate comes from within our own pain.