Nice human moment - I feel two things from these words, one yes you were the problem in the relationship how and why I couldn't tell you and it is none of anybody's business- but your reaction is a "tell"

Finally you missed a moment to heal the wound- You should have offered to move and say to Olive I hope someday you can forgive my behaviors of the past.

You shared so I shared my thought. Thank you though absolutely beautiful that you did.