There isn’t any ladder its all about chemistry, desire, needs, circumstance’s and opportunity. The animal in all of us lies beneath. Sometimes its ends well and sometimes it doesn’t. (not talking about violence only feelings)

I had GREAT women friendships when I was young and still do. What I learned early was to express the truth of your feelings- move on when they are not symbiotic.

But that was just me. Fun read though.
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